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I think he should not go quietly, but should let them know why he felt
excluded. It might be a misunderstanding and fixable.

Unless it happens to be Lenny the Lurker we're talking about. He went
ages ago, he just won't go quiet, more's the pity. Kirk, the best bet is
to just keep your kill-list up to date with his various email addresses.
Rising to it is just wasting your own oxygen to give him exactly the
validation he seeks.

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Bill Gribble
http://www.scapegoatsanon.demon.co.uk