No ad hominem comment on Bob Fidler, yet Bob Fidler
speaks not as not a divorced man or not as a divorced
man taken heavily.

I reflect upon his well considered comment.

He said,

'All of you dudes have the wrong interpretation
of the problem. The first thing that needs to be done
is get rid of the problem. If she complains out loud,
show her the road.'

Seemingly, this presumes one is not married. Whereupon
said words may be said easily.

For otherwise, if married, he would know
that he showing her the road
or
she showing him the road,

she would have him pave it with gold to her immense
and innumerable benefit;

and she would not give up with the thickness of that
gold paving layer as court ordered, for she comes again
with motions 'due to substantial changes in circumstance
and fact' , etc.

Moreover, she would steal the child or children thru
her attorneys asserting Ex Parte fathers malevolence,
insanity, psychopathology, etc et al irrespective of
his fidelity, fine parenting, and devotion to her and
love and steadfastness to the child or children.

She would continue on with Mo Money, ibidem, opero
citate, hep me Judge, I am so grieved and in danger
and threatened, and he is terrible, mean, plotting,
old, and has money...etc etc etc.

Yes, compared to female Americans,
airplanes.
gliders,
rockets,
helicopters,
other flying machines
are simple,
comparatively predictable,
kind,
straightforward,
and not dangerous

by comparison to females.

Stick with them,
those things that fly and glide,
those that blow fire or exhaust, grind the air, spin
rotors,
make laminar flow sometimes across their wings,

but make no vow with with those things that leak monthly
or formerly did so monthly,

and one shall be glad that the inanimate type of thing
whereunto he sticks is the most rewarding place to
stick.

Sexual intercourse, indeed man can do without.

Flying I cannot do without.

There is no free lunch.

No, she is not different from the others despite assurances
to the contrary made to bring one to the marriage and
to the pendular cleaver and chopping block of marital
law.

One is much more fulfilling and less dangerous than
the other.

You should know which.

Fly.

Dancing on clouds,

Keep it up!

Be of good heart.


Jim Culp USA
Asw-20C
GatorCity Florida