The main reason for this is because your relatives have known you for a
long time as a non-pilot. It is difficult for them to change how they
view you. It is the same with friends. Those who knew you before you
were a pilot may have a hard time accepting that fact. It will be
different with friends you meet after you become a pilot. I face the
same situation with my relatives. I have been flying for 10 years, and I
am an accomplished CFII. Yet, when I tell my relatives that I am a
pilot, the most common question they ask is if I have soloed yet. My
advice is don't let their ignorant comments discourage you. This is your
time, your money, and your kids. Do what you think is best.





"Fred Choate" wrote in
:

Thank you for all the comments. I want to say that there is no
question for me as to what I will do, but I was curious about the
general feelings in the aviation community.

One of the biggest motivations for getting my license, was to enjoy
the experiences with my kids. My 9 year old daughter was completely
thrilled when she was sitting right seat, scanning the sky for other
aircraft and picking out landmarks. I am hoping that she will be
inspired to pursue aviation at a young age, rather than waiting until
later in life, as I did.

As far as experience, most of you have stated exactly how I feel about
it. CERTAINLY, I have much to learn, and I look forward to learning
it. But, as with most everything else, learning is more fun when you
can experience the ups and the downs with those you care about.
Making sound decisions is part of being not only a pilot, but a parent
as well. We all make the decision to put ourselves and our kids at
risk everytime we go to the grocery store in our vehicle....(yes we
have all heard that before).

I think the thing that struck a chord with me in this case, is that
said In-Laws are both aviation people. One was a multi engine, IFR
rated pilot (he hasn't flown for years however), and the other never
finished. Thier son is a captian of an ERJ-145 on the East Coast.
They have many friends that are pilots. So the comment made to me
struck me a bit odd, and just made me think about hidden adjenda's and
things like that.

Thank you all for your comments, and support. My daughters birthday
gift this year will be her own flightbag and headset for those short
hops with Dad.

Looking forward to read more comments........thanks again.

Fred