Icebound wrote:
If I spend two or three grand on *my* golf, that may not be a big
deal, but
if I spend ten or twenty grand a year on *my* flying, that won't leave a
whole lot for *her*, ... so it is going to be ten or twenty grand, it
better be on *our* flying. Otherwise, its going to have to be those same
ten or twenty grand on *our* boat (not bad), or *our* cruises (gag) or *our*
trips to her Mother's (barf).

guys, you do realize that getting married, having kids,
etc. is actually *optional* ?

:-)

--Sylvain