("Mortimer Schnerd, RN" wrote)
[snip]
Men and women go into marriages looking for different things. With men,
it's sex and companionship. With women, it's primarily for security
(financial and otherwise). I used to be shocked listening to my female
coworkers describing their husbands but no longer. I love women; I enjoy
working with them and I enjoy talking to them. I just wouldn't want to be
tied to one. YMMV. We are what we are and they are what they are. Don't
be surprised when a marriage fails; be surprised when one succeeds.


There are times when I want my gal to be a buddy, and treat her as such -
with poor results, while she's waiting for me to act like her girlfriend -
and is "hurt" when I don't do or say the right thing. This is when things
usually go south.


Montblack