Steven P. McNicoll writes:

If ATC does not grant a pilot's request in an emergency and the flight does
not then land uneventfully, who will be held responsible?

The PIC. ATC doesn't have to grant requests for an aircraft that has declared
an emergency, as it is already entitled to do whatever it needs to do. A PIC
who doesn't understand this is not properly carrying out his duty.

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