nobody writes:

I disagree. I know hundreds of pilots, but not a single one who will fly
after drinking.

How many of them have been cited for driving while intoxicated?

I know plenty if people who will drive after drinking. I
mistrust your sample.

How many pilots do you know who will drive after drinking but won't fly?

In general, if a drinker manages to rationalize driving under the influence,
it's not really any different to rationalize flying under the influence. Even
airline pilots are caught at this.