writes:

Most moderated groups would eventually ban you not because of the content
of your posts at first, but because your posts are normally carefully
crafted to **** people off and be disruptive in the long run.

As hard as it may be to believe and accept, people **** themselves off; I
don't do it (nor does any other external party). If you cultivate a certain
mindset and attitude, nothing ****es you off.