"hello" wrote

But as I tell all my FO's (whether they speak English of not, IN ENGLISH),
"If you make us go around, you won't fly another leg for the rest of the
day." I only say this when they're at 30DME from the field and still at
18000 Ft.

Well, THAT's real helpful for ensuring safety.

If I'm riding, let everyone know before we take off, so I can get off.

If going around is needed, I would prefer to go around, without fear of
punishment for the FO.

But since you are posting without a real identity, you probably only fly
Microsoft flight simulators, so it really does not matter what you are
posting.
--
Jim in NC