Thanks for the ideas, guys. I think I will
go for the book IFR Structured Approach book,
and maybe another book I saw, a pilot's guide
to western airports that had pictures of the
airport and the city and major attractions therein.
(A good book for helping the non-pilot in the
relationship find a reason to fly somewhere.)

I will get her roses, and will spend lots on
100LL, trust me. Alas, the pilot shop with
the gift certificate sells neither.

thanks,
-- dave