Jim wrote:

I'd appreciate any recommendations for a first-timer like myself.

This isn't a recommendation, but Brantly may be one of the the least expensive
options.
http://www.brantly.com/
http://www.brantly.info/

What's a good starter? Decent re-sell, ...

This is a recommendation, don't buy a homebuilt helicopter. But if you do, don't
buy a Mini 500.