It depends on what sim you have in mind; they are all different.

I have tried 4 or 5. They all sucked.

As far as desktop simulators go, a very large community of regular simmers
would disagree with you, and many of them are also "real" pilots.

What is a "real' pilot?

When it comes to more advanced simulators, virtually none of your complaints
has any basis.

Which advanced simulators are you referring to?

Some pilots learn humility in a sim.

I learn humility when I fly. How can you be humbled by a simulator?