On Wed, 30 Jul 2003 17:36:00 GMT, Larry Dighera
wrote:

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Is it good manners for a host to fail to provide for his guests needs
that arise as a result of accepting his host's invitation?

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one side of this or the other needs to quit contemplating their navel,
concede to the other, & put a fork in it......it's done already, jeez