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In the UK, in the case of those who are driving, yes.
Paul "mike regish" wrote in message news:d6tyb.373432$Fm2.374121@attbi_s04... Now I want you to tell me, honestly mind you, that you believe that the majority of people who spend several hours in a bar drink 3 drinks or less. |
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"Koopas Ly" wrote in message
om... (Part86) wrote in message ... I have no flight experience, but I'd like to persue some kind of career as a pilot... I don't neccessarily have to be a commercial pilot, but I'd like to fly. Thanks To persue some kind of career as a pilot, you need to be a commercial pilot. The way I read that is "I want to be a commercial pilot, but I don't have to be, just flying privately would be nice". |
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Thanks for taking the time to respond, Jay. I know we both desperately
want the best for our kids and from our cultural experiences each see the path a little differently. One more shot from the soap box and I’ll get off. ![]() I am under no illusion that my child hasn't or doesn't drink alcohol. I did my experimentation when I was younger too. My goal was not to have her never drink. My goal was to give her that choice. The overwhelming consensus seems to be that kids will, so tell them to go ahead but be responsible - a stamp of approval on succumbing to peer pressure. If my daughter makes the choice to drink, that's her business. If she did it just because everyone else was doing it, that would not be a healthy reason. I've shown her, not just told her, that saying no is a choice she CAN make. She has learned that peer approval is a fleeting vapor that pales in comparison to the self respect one has for making ones own choices. Of course a side benefit is that she takes responsibility for her actions. If she chooses to drink, she knows she alone made the choice and will do it responsibly. Never does she put blame for her actions on anyone else. We pilots are in the same situation. We pilots, like we non-drinkers, have chosen to pursue a path that few others are following. Some envy us because we are doing something they don't have the guts or discipline to do, but most others look at us as odd and obsessed. Their lack of approval means nothing to me. I have the self respect that comes with making my own choices. I raised my daughter with that same attitude. She knew what she wanted to do with her life the day she left high school. At 25 she has a wonderful husband, has put herself through college, is established in a great career, owns a home, and makes me proud every day. My not drinking may not have affected her fate, but I feel that it, along with my flying did reinforce in her the confidence that she could do anything she wanted and not do anything she didn't. Those who want to convince me that I raised her wrong are just too late. YMMV. Other methods may work too. Life's lessons can be learned in a variety of ways and many kids are still living at home at 25. ![]() -- Gene Seibel Hangar 131 - http://pad39a.com/gene/plane.html Because I fly, I envy no one. "Jay Honeck" wrote in message news:fsPyb.384007$Tr4.1121745@attbi_s03... And I can't see anything bad in that. I'm curious why people do drink...... Nothing wrong with not drinking alcohol, Gene -- I often go days and weeks without myself. However, the health benefits of drinking in moderation are hard to dispute. A glass or two of beer or wine at the end of a long, stressful day can only be described as "just what the doctor ordered" -- both mentally AND physically. You are right, however, that drinking is like a lottery -- you never know who is going to be susceptible to the "Dark Side" of alcohol. It's a wonder that my oldest sister and I can drink in moderation, without ill effect -- in fact, with enhanced *healthful* effect -- while my youngest sister has spent three decades in the depths of alcoholism and drug abuse. But I *do* worry about my children, not knowing whether they have the "evil gene" of alcoholism. Not knowing if they will be able to drink socially and safely is a deep concern, given my family history -- but I don't think our not drinking will effect their fate one way or the other. When they go to high school and (more prevalently )college, alcohol will be everywhere, and they WILL partake, guaranteed. I think it may be the "anti-alcohol" movement on campus that has romanticized drinking for the kids, and made "binge drinking" into an Olympic sport on campuses nationwide. Given this certainty, drinking RESPONSIBLY is something I want them to see, and emulate. |
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![]() "Jay Honeck" wrote in message news:dg8zb.203652$Dw6.747247@attbi_s02... Augh! You found me out Jay! Now I have to confess that I've actually enjoyed this year's season of _Star Trek: Enterprise_. What are you going to do with me! PLEASE! Not the briar patch! Whew! You're okay after all. Any Trek fan is a friend of mine! ;-) -- Trek Fans.... We are everywhere.... Did you notice how they changed the name of the show from Enterprise to Star Trek: Enterprise? Almost made my TIVO miss an episode. |
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![]() Paul Sengupta wrote: Do you not have this "designated driver" thing we see on the TV over here? Someone who only drinks soft drinks? Yes, it's done in my crowd. That doesn't include many people under 35 or so, so I really don't have any first-hand experience with the young adult habits. George Patterson Some people think they hear a call to the priesthood when what they really hear is a tiny voice whispering "It's indoor work with no heavy lifting". |
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On Wed, 3 Dec 2003 11:29:26 -0600, "Gig Giacona"
wrote: Did you notice how they changed the name of the show from Enterprise to Star Trek: Enterprise? Almost made my TIVO miss an episode. Yes, there was an *extended* discussion on this topic on www.tivocommunity.com. Basically: UPN started out with keeping the same show ID (X) but changing the name to ST: Enterprise. TiVo, Inc, knew about this, and notified people about the name change, but did not know if UPN would change the ID. They did not initially. So the TiVo did not care, because thnigs internally are tracked by show ID, not by name. The ID presumably comes from Tribune in one form or another, but the intricacies of *that* database I wish to inflict on no person. Then UPN decided to change the show ID, which DID screw up all the season passes. And then then UPN switched back to the original show ID in the end. And I also believe that the show ID change back and forth all happened in the space of a week so that depending on when your guide data got updated and processed and if you could get the 2nd run that some UPN stations show you wouldn't have a problem. Regardless, it was all a big mess, but hopefully it was instructive to UPN to show them that now there are appliances and other devices acting directly on the guide data and more stringent care must be taken with it. aw |
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![]() "mike regish" wrote in message news:eAnyb.262181$9E1.1381879@attbi_s52... | For how long? I tried the "one beer an hour" thing once. I wouldn't have | wanted to take a breathalyzer after that. Plus, the beer got warm. I don't | think you can seriously claim that somebody who goes into a bar at 8 pm and | comes out at 1:30 am will be below the legal limit after drinking for that | entire time, no matter how slowly he drinks. I've never seen anybody in a | bar who doesn't have a drink in front of him to him at all times. | Well, I don't drink at all -- and never have, but I have spent some time in bars. There were times when we would get in late at night and the only place to get anything to eat was the bars. This was especially true in Asia. |
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However, I think any time a teenager sees her way through to a stable
and sane adulthood is cause for celebration. Congratulations, Gene. Pass the sparkling water? I will "Second" that motion, Gene! If I can one day say the same for my two kids (ages 10 and 13), I will be a happy man. -- Jay Honeck Iowa City, IA Pathfinder N56993 www.AlexisParkInn.com "Your Aviation Destination" |
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driving. This person asked if I was ok to drive...he'd seen me
drinking beer all day and evening. I pointed out that I had, as seen, been with a can of beer next to me since lunchtime, but in that time had consumed a grand total of two cans! Well, Paul -- if it was in a "can", it probably wasn't "beer", anyway! :-) -- Jay Honeck Iowa City, IA Pathfinder N56993 www.AlexisParkInn.com "Your Aviation Destination" |
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