what is it about women?

I think its more to do with the fact that as soon as
a female turns up at the airfield she has 30 dirty
old men trying fondle her.

Gliding men are, in general, sad old men who have forgotten
that they are no longer attractive to women under 30
( or to be honest any woman of any age). If you would
like proof of this then turn up to any gliding club
in the UK where a University Club flies (i.e. to provide
a steady steam of women as test specimens) and watch
the old duffers try to grope them.

It is truly a disgusting spectacle to watch.

Owain



At 12:30 12 January 2004, Bruce wrote:
Go Shirley

We have been trying to improve the 'balance' of membership
for years.

Our experience with female membership is -
There are less chances of being exposed to gliding
for females.
Therefore there are lower percentages.
Our hobby/sport involves a lot of dirt, sweat and sunshine,
and
occasional mud and grease. (so do many other sports-
think of BMX.) but
many ladies prefer to avoid the muck.
Women tend to get patronised, and the type of person
who makes a good
glider pilot seldom likes being patronised.
Gliding is a very individual sport, that involves a
lot of team/social
interaction. Our ladies like that.
Soaring takes a lot of time, and many women are busy
raising families
(often single handedly) which mitigates against the
neccessary time
commitments.

I hope our club is getting to the point where the ladies
reach critical
mass (currently 20%) - presumably the culture will
change a bit, and
maybe we will find and retain a more representative
membership.

Since we started we have attracted about 25% of new
members being female.

Now - on trying to attract non-white membership - One
out of 25 so
far... In a country where 'European descent' is less
than 10% of the
population we 'palefaces' have virtual exclusivity
in gliding. Why?

Cheers
Bruce

Shirley wrote:
'John Mason' wrote:


I don't want to offend any women by making
any generalisations about their characteristics,


Right. Nice disclaimer. I wonder if this wasn't complete
trolling, but I don't
care, gonna respond anyway. As you said, 'stuff that.'


They just hate it. How many women compared to
men will go for a day at the club with you? The few

that do come with me always regret it and so I just
don't ask them along anymore.


I'm not surprised (that they regret it), since you
already have your mind made
up that 97% of us 'just hate it'. Sounds to me as
if you'd rather be there
alone anyway.


Women don't thrill seek, they are timid and cautious

or less reckless [snip]


Less reckless is often mistaken for timid and cautious.
True, most of us
'Vagino-Americans' (what a GREAT term!) are less likely
than you testosterone
machines of climbing into an aircraft to see how many
revolutions it will spin
in x-number of feet before we know how to competently
do slow flight. Oh...but
of course, I'm not making any generalizations about
the characteristics of men,
either. We like thrills just like you guys do, but
yes, if we're going to be
the one at the controls, we like to have a thorough
understanding of what we're
doing first. If you want to call that being timid
and cautious, be my guest.


That's how it is and you can try to force change with
positive discrimination and schemes and systems but

what for; to turn women into men?


Excuse me? You might not have noticed, but not ALL
of us women glider pilots
talk, walk, think, dress, act or look like men. I
still like to smell like a
flower at least when I arrive at the gliderport, and
I still reach for my
hairbrush and lip gloss after I've helped get my glider
back into the hangar
and taken the weights out at the end of the day. But
that doesn't mean that I'm
not just as excited as any man when I see the Vario
shoot up and the altimeter
on the incline or when I've just touched down *like
buttah*.


It is not like the education issue in the 60's. There
is
no prejudice, and there are no substantial barriers
to
women who want to go gliding.


There are no substantial barriers--that is, everyone
involved in the training
aspect that I've ever met has welcomed me. But no
prejudice? Are you serious?!
The majority of men where I fly are wonderful people--supportive,
encouraging,
and helpful, and they act like gentlemen. There are,
however, a few who have
their minds made up about women and why we're there
(or not there) and who
clearly believe that we should never have been given
the opportunity to
infiltrate this little corner of THEIR world. If any
woman's intro to gliders
involved one of the latter group, it's no wonder they
regret being there. After
reading your post, I'd be surprised if you weren't
part of that group.


They can do it if they want, its just they don't
want to and they never will.


Some don't and never will; some men don't like to
shop and never will either
... so what's your point? Some women share the interest
and fascination and fly
gliders with as much or more enthusiasm and passion
as you guys, whether at the
controls or as a passenger, whether at 5000 feet or
15000 feet, whether right
above their home airport or on a cross-country. It's
just easier for people
like you to ignore the 3% of us (repeating your number,
I have no idea if
that's accurate or not) who DO appreciate and love
to fly so you can make the
sweeping generalizations and blanket statements that
you just made.

Sorry your disclaimer wasn't effective ... it's just
that you did exactly what
you said you didn't want to do -- offend, be sexist,
stereotype.

Overall, this has been an amusing thread.
--Shirley (shopping for a dress ... imagine that,
John, a woman glider pilot
who hasn't turned into a man!)

We must be lucky.

Average age 40 although most of us are no doubt unattractive to the
opposite sex ;-)
We try to make the club a place where we are happy to bring our kids
(mine are 5 and 9) and where the nubile ones are not harassed. We have
three members under 20, and a number in their 30s although most of us
are in the 40-50 range.

We have managed to eject the undesirables, gently. (you don't have to be
old to be a duffer)

Acceptible social behaviour somehow always becomes an issue when you
have too many of the testosterone challenged (well it's making my hair
fall out) in one place. That's why I said I'm hoping for a change in
culture as we get the number of ladies up. Funny how far a little
respect and diginity go.

Bruce

Owain Walters wrote:
I think its more to do with the fact that as soon as
a female turns up at the airfield she has 30 dirty
old men trying fondle her.

Gliding men are, in general, sad old men who have forgotten
that they are no longer attractive to women under 30
( or to be honest any woman of any age). If you would
like proof of this then turn up to any gliding club
in the UK where a University Club flies (i.e. to provide
a steady steam of women as test specimens) and watch
the old duffers try to grope them.

It is truly a disgusting spectacle to watch.

Owain

On 2004/01/12 06:37, in article ,
"Owain Walters" wrote:

I think its more to do with the fact that as soon as
a female turns up at the airfield she has 30 dirty
old men trying fondle her.

[....]

Gliding men are, in general, sad old men who have forgotten
that they are no longer attractive to women under 30
(or to be honest...woman of any age).

Owain


Y'all need to lighten up, boy! You have been bested by every one of the
women who have responded in this thread.

It seems like just a few years ago we old men who glide were also arrogant
teenagers. We have lost more than a bit of our physical appeal, but our
intentions are no dirtier than they ever were.

One wonders why there is so much bitterness in your post -- a quality
usually ascribed to the "sad old men" themselves. I suspect the ladies in
the UK just aren't taking your bait -- and aren't likely to do so if you are
no more fun than you seem to be here on r.a.s.



Jack

Jack,

The people who I refer to also dont realise that they
are also dirty old men......

'Bested'?

Owain





At 08:36 13 January 2004, Jack wrote:
On 2004/01/12 06:37, in article -b
erlin.de,
'Owain Walters' wrote:

I think its more to do with the fact that as soon
as
a female turns up at the airfield she has 30 dirty
old men trying fondle her.

[....]

Gliding men are, in general, sad old men who have
forgotten
that they are no longer attractive to women under
30
(or to be honest...woman of any age).

Owain


Y'all need to lighten up, boy! You have been bested
by every one of the
women who have responded in this thread.

It seems like just a few years ago we old men who glide
were also arrogant
teenagers. We have lost more than a bit of our physical
appeal, but our
intentions are no dirtier than they ever were.

One wonders why there is so much bitterness in your
post -- a quality
usually ascribed to the 'sad old men' themselves. I
suspect the ladies in
the UK just aren't taking your bait -- and aren't likely
to do so if you are
no more fun than you seem to be here on r.a.s.



Jack