Larry Dighera wrote:

The second clause of the sentence you quoted should have given you a
clue:

Bull****. If you don't want to be something, don't be. If you decide to
actually *be* a wet blanket (as you were), then you MUST want to be one.

George Patterson
The optimist feels that we live in the best of all possible worlds. The
pessimist is afraid that he's correct.
James Branch Cavel