In a perfect world, all jokes are equal and none are offensive.

uh, those aren't jokes. The basis of humor is generally to make light of
someone's shortcomings....sometimes it's self-deprecating and the joke
teller is the butt. Other times, it's about a person (in this case women)
and most every time hyperbole is involved......Sorry, but humor is
discriminatory by definition.

If Utopia requires me to give up my differences (the good and the bad), then
you can have it.

I've never laughed at a joke that starts "A rabbi, a rabbi and a rabbi walk
into a bar....."

jf