While that may true, if you don't try to be a part of the solution, maybe you are part of the problem.
If someone ignores all the help in the world to help them, their family and friends, if you tried and failed....at least you tried.
Yes, no matter the level of help, some just seem to be destined to run for a Darwin award.

No, this is NOT a comment on the pilot or his friends in this thread.
This is a suggestion in general to maybe help someone else. I am supporting the "real UH" in this thread. Even the biggest butthead is worth at least $50 or so to save his butt.