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"Jay Honeck" wrote in message
news:bUp0b.200383$Ho3.26912@sccrnsc03... This has EVERYTHING to do with the fact that skin color or religious preference is patently and demonstrably harmless, while sexual attraction is potentially and demonstrably harmful -- especially in groups of pre-teen boys (and girls). Skin color is patently harmless? Really? Ever heard of the Black Panthers? Religious preference is harmless? Really? Funny...seems like a couple of years ago, some VERY religious-minded folks destroyed the World Trade Center. Differences in skin color or religious preference have a GREAT potential for causing conflict and harm. That potential need not be nearly as militant as the examples I've given to do serious harm, either psychologically or physically. As far as sexual attraction being potentially and demonstrably harmful, I suppose that depends on what you mean. If teenages are not properly supervised, there is the potential for fraternization. However, I will tell you this: there was a LOT more fraternization and a LOT less supervision when I was a teenager at co-ed church retreats then when I was a teenager at Boy Scout camping trips (and remember, I was in the Boy Scouts before it occurred to anyone to ask someone if they were gay before letting them be in the troop, either as a scout or a leader). However, I fail to see what is inherently harmful about the fraternization. Even the military is on pretty thin ice with their claim that romantic involvements between servicemen can undermine the safety of the entire group, and at least in their case they do have people shooting at them on a regular basis. I can't imagine what harm could come from a couple of gay boys in the same Boy Scout troop having a romantic involvement (other than the usual problems of immature teenagers being involved sexually, regardless of sexual preference). At least you know they're not going to get pregnant. I wouldn't want my Girl Scout daughter chaperoned overnight by a male troop leader, either, for fear of what might happen. There were lots of women at the summer camp I went to when I was a Boy Scout. For some reason, no funny business ever happened, nor was anyone worried about mixed-gender leadership. Beyond that, as has been pointed out multiple times already, you are more likely to find a heterosexual male willing to prey on a teenage boy than you are to find a homosexual male willing to do the same. Your concern should be based on reality, not your existing prejudice and lack of understanding of what it actually means to be homosexual. Pete |
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There were lots of women at the summer camp I went to when I was a Boy
Scout. For some reason, no funny business ever happened, nor was anyone worried about mixed-gender leadership. Beyond that, as has been pointed out multiple times already, you are more likely to find a heterosexual male willing to prey on a teenage boy than you are to find a homosexual male willing to do the same. I would say the odds of a woman "preying" upon a teenage boy are an order of magnitude smaller than the reverse example (i.e.: A man preying on a teenage girl.). According to my wife (a Girl Scout leader, BTW), most women just ain't wired "that way". (I'll have to take her word for it.) Men, on the other hand, I understand. It would be sheer folly to assume that a man, left alone with a teenage girl, overnight, wouldn't be tempted. Would most men ACT on this temptation? No, of course not. But I'd bet you a hundred bucks that a higher percentage of men than women would... This is the model to follow when considering leaving a gay man in charge of a Boy Scout troop, IMHO. Finally, I'm totally baffled by your statement that "you are more likely to find a heterosexual male willing to prey on a teenage boy than you are to find a homosexual male willing to do the same." In what way would a HETEROsexual male be likely to prey upon a teenage boy? -- Jay Honeck Iowa City, IA Pathfinder N56993 www.AlexisParkInn.com "Your Aviation Destination" |
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![]() "Jay Honeck" wrote in message news:wIt0b.201425$YN5.140717@sccrnsc01... In what way would a HETEROsexual male be likely to prey upon a teenage boy? That would be a pedaphile. They are sickos that don't think along lines that normal-thinking people do. That would include GAY normal-thinking people. |
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![]() Jay Honeck wrote: There were lots of women at the summer camp I went to when I was a Boy Scout. For some reason, no funny business ever happened, nor was anyone worried about mixed-gender leadership. Beyond that, as has been pointed out multiple times already, you are more likely to find a heterosexual male willing to prey on a teenage boy than you are to find a homosexual male willing to do the same. I would say the odds of a woman "preying" upon a teenage boy are an order of magnitude smaller than the reverse example (i.e.: A man preying on a teenage girl.). According to my wife (a Girl Scout leader, BTW), most women just ain't wired "that way". (I'll have to take her word for it.) Didn't hear about that teacher out west then (the one who had a kid by her middle school student). We had a PE teacher here in VA (female) busted for fooling around with the boys. Men, on the other hand, I understand. It would be sheer folly to assume that a man, left alone with a teenage girl, overnight, wouldn't be tempted. Would most men ACT on this temptation? No, of course not. But I'd bet you a hundred bucks that a higher percentage of men than women would... This is the model to follow when considering leaving a gay man in charge of a Boy Scout troop, IMHO. Gee, so men are inherently evil! I knew it, I knew it, I knew it!!!!!! (Yes, I am joking!) Finally, I'm totally baffled by your statement that "you are more likely to find a heterosexual male willing to prey on a teenage boy than you are to find a homosexual male willing to do the same." In what way would a HETEROsexual male be likely to prey upon a teenage boy? - Because pedophilia isn't necessarily related to gender. Male pedophiles who prey on little boys might be straight when it comes to normal sex. Margy |
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Because pedophilia isn't necessarily related to gender. Male pedophiles
who prey on little boys might be straight when it comes to normal sex. Really? I would submit that any male who is sexually aroused by the same sex -- no matter what the age -- is NOT "straight". What your are describing, IMHO, is a bisexual male. -- Jay Honeck Iowa City, IA Pathfinder N56993 www.AlexisParkInn.com "Your Aviation Destination" |
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![]() "Jay Honeck" wrote in message news:kVv0b.201928$YN5.141200@sccrnsc01... Because pedophilia isn't necessarily related to gender. Male pedophiles who prey on little boys might be straight when it comes to normal sex. Really? I would submit that any male who is sexually aroused by the same sex -- no matter what the age -- is NOT "straight". What your are describing, IMHO, is a bisexual male. Someone who is sexually aroused by small girls isn't "straight" either. What part of molesting small children is an unnatural act (even for homosexuals) do you have a hard time wrapping your more-rigtht-wing-than-Ronald-Reagan brain around? |
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What part of molesting small children is an unnatural act (even for
homosexuals) do you have a hard time wrapping your more-rigtht-wing-than-Ronald-Reagan brain around? Both straight and gay pedophiles are repugnant, and my statement stands. But an adult male that is attracted to male children is just double-trouble. -- Jay Honeck Iowa City, IA Pathfinder N56993 www.AlexisParkInn.com "Your Aviation Destination" |
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![]() Jay Honeck wrote: Because pedophilia isn't necessarily related to gender. Male pedophiles who prey on little boys might be straight when it comes to normal sex. Really? I would submit that any male who is sexually aroused by the same sex -- no matter what the age -- is NOT "straight". What your are describing, IMHO, is a bisexual male. The pedophile is attracted to kids. I think to label a male as gay or bi they need to be attracted to adult males. Margy |
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On Tue, 19 Aug 2003 14:30:04 -0400, Margy Natalie
wrote: Because pedophilia isn't necessarily related to gender. Male pedophiles who prey on little boys might be straight when it comes to normal sex. Um, male pedophiles who prey on little boys, and are "straight" otherwise, are "bisexuals", aren't they? I think y'all are splitting hairs, there. Rob |
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"Robert Perkins" wrote in message
... Um, male pedophiles who prey on little boys, and are "straight" otherwise, are "bisexuals", aren't they? No, they are not. They are pedophiles. If you ask a male who is attracted to boys as well as adult women what his sexual orientation is, do you really think his answer is going to be "bisexual"? Pete |
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