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On Sep 12, 3:31*pm, Dudley Henriques wrote:
It's important to note that not cursing at a student is not to be misconstrued into meaning that an instructor is being "too nice". The way this issue has been presented by the original poster would infer that through the use of his description countering his argument in favor of his personal method. Instructors NOT cursing at students are absolutely NOT being "too nice" by NOT cursing at students! This premise if assumed is false. I've also had instructors and examiners who would hit you on the hand or shoulder when they didn't like something you were doing. Aside from rubbing close shoulders there is no reason to touch your students in the cockpit. -Robert, CFII |
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Robert M. Gary wrote:
On Sep 12, 3:31 pm, Dudley Henriques wrote: It's important to note that not cursing at a student is not to be misconstrued into meaning that an instructor is being "too nice". The way this issue has been presented by the original poster would infer that through the use of his description countering his argument in favor of his personal method. Instructors NOT cursing at students are absolutely NOT being "too nice" by NOT cursing at students! This premise if assumed is false. I've also had instructors and examiners who would hit you on the hand or shoulder when they didn't like something you were doing. Aside from rubbing close shoulders there is no reason to touch your students in the cockpit. -Robert, CFII I agree. My preferred method is to gauge the way I project with a student based on my read on that specific student's ability to receive what I'm projecting and the tone with which I'm projecting it. This method of controlling "tone" is very important in the teaching cockpit, as the "classroom" is moving and all instruction is being given while this dynamic environment is on going. It's fine to upscale the tone of a verbal exchange with a student to stress necessity and/or a time constraint, but this raising of the "tone" by the instructor should never in my opinion cross the line that separates the need for action from abuse. Shouting and/or cursing at a student in the cockpit in my opinion adds to the student's stress level and degrades their performance. What I'm stressing here is that not cursing at a student goes MUCH further than the respect issue. It's actually a quality of instruction issue and as such I place it high on the list of things that instructors should learn to do correctly. -- Dudley Henriques |
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On Sep 12, 5:01*pm, Dudley Henriques wrote:
What I'm stressing here is that not cursing at a student goes MUCH further than the respect issue. It's actually a quality of instruction issue and as such I place it high on the list of things that instructors should learn to do correctly. Generally agreed, but I would argue that you can't have quality of instruction without respect. -Robert |
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Robert M. Gary wrote:
On Sep 12, 5:01 pm, Dudley Henriques wrote: What I'm stressing here is that not cursing at a student goes MUCH further than the respect issue. It's actually a quality of instruction issue and as such I place it high on the list of things that instructors should learn to do correctly. Generally agreed, but I would argue that you can't have quality of instruction without respect. -Robert I agree, and I would counter that you don't have to shout or curse at a student to gain that respect. In fact, with most students, that is EXACTLY the fastest way to LOSE that respect. Most students want their instructors to be thorough, concise, knowledgeable, friendly, and above all, professional at all times. Achieving this relationship with a student can easily be done without being a "pussy", while on the other hand, shouting and cursing at a student negates enough of the prime good teaching requisites I've mentioned to eliminate these two factors from any competent instruction method and classify them as a negative. -- Dudley Henriques |
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On 2008-09-13, Dudley Henriques wrote:
Most students want their instructors to be thorough, concise, knowledgeable, friendly, and above all, professional at all times. Indeed. Part of that is that the student should feel that the instructor is competent to keep him out of trouble even if he screws up pretty badly, and losing your cool is a good way to destroy that confidence. As I begin my studies toward the CFI-SP rating, I do plan to keep that in mind. Sorry, but whoever it is that says that cussing at a student is effective does not have me as an adherent. -- Jay Maynard, K5ZC http://www.conmicro.com http://jmaynard.livejournal.com http://www.tronguy.net Fairmont, MN (FRM) (Yes, that's me!) AMD Zodiac CH601XLi N55ZC |
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On Sep 12, 5:17*pm, Dudley Henriques wrote:
I agree, and I would counter that you don't have to shout or curse at a student to gain that respect. In fact, with most students, that is EXACTLY the fastest way to LOSE that respect. Exactly. If the CFI knows what he's doing he would be in control of the situation well enough to not need to shout and curse. -Robert |
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Robert M. Gary wrote:
On Sep 12, 5:17 pm, Dudley Henriques wrote: I agree, and I would counter that you don't have to shout or curse at a student to gain that respect. In fact, with most students, that is EXACTLY the fastest way to LOSE that respect. Exactly. If the CFI knows what he's doing he would be in control of the situation well enough to not need to shout and curse. -Robert Many, (all too many in fact) instructors make the HUGE mistake of projecting right from the beginning, the exact opposite of what they should be projecting to a new student. Through their actions, their verbal expression, and their general attitude, they convey to a student how well THEY can fly the airplane and how much THEY know about flying. This attitude in many cases shows up in the cockpit as an aura of "I'M in command here. If you do EXACTLY as I say, I'll allow you to learn from me. If not, you can bet your ass you'll hear about it!!!" The exact opposite is the "aura" the instructor should be projecting to a student. You don't have to constantly make the student aware of how superior YOU are. They already assume that or they wouldn't have gotten in the airplane with you. What's needed is the creation of a calm but professional projection to the student that is designed from the very beginning to allow the student to mentally project that flying the airplane is within THEIR reach, and that YOU as the instructor, are there to help them reach that goal. Instructors need to spend more time building confidence in students instead of raising their voices at them. ANY raising of an instructor's voice instills fear and apprehension in a student. It conveys to them that something is VERY wrong, either with the aircraft, or with something they are doing with the aircraft.It's very bad policy and detracts from the value of the lesson. I've started every primary student who has climbed into an airplane with me with the same approach. In a calm quiet voice I explain to them as we walk out to the airplane that flying is not all that hard. I'll be letting them take the controls from the very beginning and that they are NOT to worry because no matter what they do I won't allow them to hurt either us or the airplane. Once an instructor reaches the point with a student where they feel relaxed and safe, confidence begins to build and real learning becomes possible. All shouting and cursing at a student does is delay that necessary point from happening. -- Dudley Henriques |
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On Sep 13, 8:55*am, Dudley Henriques wrote:
The exact opposite is the "aura" the instructor should be projecting to a student. You don't have to constantly make the student aware of how superior YOU are. They already assume that or they wouldn't have gotten in the airplane with you. Its funny but people just assume you must he a "super pilot" if you are a CFI. I guess to the student pilot a CFI seems like Yeager. I can say that I've never felt like a student needed me to "prove" my flying ability. I can see how some CFIs could get a big head because of all this. However, all it takes is to sit in the left seat with good CFI to break you back down. ![]() This is also where decision making starts. Because a student usually looks up to his first CFI he will tend to emmulate your decision making. The CFI who likes to buzz farm houses will have a student who thinks that once he's a good pilot he should start buzzing farm houses. I just can't say enough about the importance of being professional. If you act like a true professional in the cockpit you will have students who believe that they need to be professional in the cockpit. -Robert |
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"Robert M. Gary" wrote
On Sep 12, 5:17*pm, Dudley Henriques wrote: I agree, and I would counter that you don't have to shout or curse at a student to gain that respect. In fact, with most students, that is EXACTLY the fastest way to LOSE that respect. Exactly. If the CFI knows what he's doing he would be in control of the situation well enough to not need to shout and curse. I suspect that Rocky and I would make great friends as I and probably most of his students understand where he is coming from...an ex-Marine D.I. His students have most likely been exposed to the DI act somewhere in their officer training as I was. As we did, they probably gather over a beer in the evening and brag about who was able to rankle Rocky the most. My old Pre-Flight DI wasn't near as tough as he thought he was. Navy regs prohibited him from swearing at the future officers. This effectively destroyed much of the DI act. And....as far as the fight scene in "An Officer and a Gentleman" between the cadet and the DI....could not have possibly happened. However Rocky....It appears as if you have been severely out voted on the language issue. ![]() ![]() Bob Moore |
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On Sep 13, 11:58*am, Robert Moore wrote:
"Robert M. Gary" *wrote On Sep 12, 5:17*pm, Dudley Henriques wrote: I agree, and I would counter that you don't have to shout or curse at a student to gain that respect. In fact, with most students, that is EXACTLY the fastest way to LOSE that respect. Exactly. If the CFI knows what he's doing he would be in control of the situation well enough to not need to shout and curse. I suspect that Rocky and I would make great friends as I and probably most of his students understand where he is coming from...an ex-Marine D.I. His students have most likely been exposed to the DI act somewhere in their officer training as I was. *As we did, they probably gather over a beer in the evening and brag about who was able to rankle Rocky the most. My old Pre-Flight DI wasn't near as tough as he thought he was. Navy regs prohibited him from swearing at the future officers. This effectively destroyed much of the DI act. *And....as far as the fight scene in "An Officer and a Gentleman" between the cadet and the DI....could not have possibly happened. However Rocky....It appears as if you have been severely out voted on the language issue. * ![]() ![]() Bob Moore Bob Yeh it would appear that way. I query students about it from time to time to see if it is hurting effectivness and for the most part they are positive towards my techniques. But, and this is the really odd part, other CFI's try it and get slammed hard in critiques! From time to time I'll not use even a hint of profanity and rely on well educated use of the english language. Doesn't seem to work nearly as well for me. I have been, and always will be I suppose, very cognizant of profanity with female students until they outswear me. I really do try to keep it from getting overboard. I recall a helicopter instructor of mine back in the 60's who could not speak a simple sentence without profanity. I discovered I was counting his curse words rather than getting benefit of instruction. This was after I had 4-5000 hours so it wasn't as if I was a rank new guy. When I talked to him about it, he reply was "No ****?" GGGGG I'm glad to see this post has generated so much discussion. Most of the time I try to create a subject line that will draw out the pros for everyones benefit. Best Professional Regards to you all Rocky |
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